I think the most interesting thing about the “Courtly Love”
readings was learning that it was a genre that was most enjoyed by women (and
was, in some respects, empowering to women – at least compared to the rest of
the literature being written at the time), and was also on some level looked
down upon by the majority of “intelligent” society (i.e. those who read things
in Latin). While this genre was obviously very different from how we view the
romantic genre today, it’s fascinating to see how some of the fundamentals of
the current romance genre seem to have been present even then.
While I don’t condone the terms, “chick-flick” and “chick-lit”
are obviously popular ways not only to refer to stories devoured by women, but
also to imply that because they are produced for a female audience, they are
somehow lesser. Roger Ebert put it perfectly in a 2007 film review: “As a man,
I would hate to have my tastes condescended to by the opposite of Chick Lit,
which, according to Gloria Steinem, is Prick Lit.” Oftentimes, anything novel
or film that focuses on a romance (or really, just something involving a woman
at all) is considered to be a piece of chick-lit of chick-flick, and thus gets
viewed as somehow less legit a piece of media.
For example, Jane Austen is my
favorite writer, in part because of her complex and multifaceted stories, and
also yes, the romances she writes. I have often told this to people and received
multiple eye rolls, as all as some comment along the lines of, “so you’re into
girly chick stuff.” As though because she wrote about romance, Austen is
somehow less of a writer.
Obviously, the connection doesn’t work out perfectly, since
the initial reason for Courtly Love not being seen as real literature came from
the fact that it was written in French instead of Latin. Personally, knowing
how society usually works, I think the fact that these stories were primarily
read by women likely didn’t help their reputation.
It’s pretty unsurprising that women were particularly interested
in stories in which they play an active role, and that can again translate to
the media of today: yes, women are more interested in stories in which they are
viewed as actual human beings, as opposed to sexy props. And oftentimes, the
films that focus on the minds and actions of women are labeled the derogatory “chick-flick,”
simply for daring to be about a chick.
Again, I do not believe that this is a perfect comparison by
any means – I really don’t think that the Courtly Love stories were likely very
feminist, at least by today’s standards. But I do find the similarities to be
interesting, since a lot of the themes currently important to the consumption
of romance seem to have been there from the beginning.
Hey Ellie!
ReplyDeleteGirl, you are so right about people judging me, or women in general, based on what we read. I'm like you, I like nothing more than a good romance. My romance tastes tend to be more focused on erotic literature rather than classic romances, but the views are still the same. It's always someone having to stick their nose into my business and judging based on what I enjoy reading. Do you know how many times the books I've read have been called "literary porn" or "smut/trash" just because there is some hardcore sex scenes in them? They think of romance, in general, as being a lesser literature than regular ol' literary fiction or scholarly academic literature. Like, get out of here with that nonsense!
I totally agree with your comment that women are more interested in stories where they are viewed as actual human beings. In my case with erotic literature, I like to read about women who are exploring their sexuality, or falling into an intense love affair. That's real to me and that appeals to millions of other women readers. The sex doesn't detract from a woman's self worth, it empowers her instead of hindering her. I don't think women want to read about other women being seen as objects or sex symbols. Instead of a woman using her body for the entertainment of men, I'd rather see a woman use her body for her own self-fulfillment and because she's feeling herself!
Great post!
I refuse to accept the fact that men like romance stories less than women. Maybe I've just met too many fellows who still melt over one girl they fell in love with in some three to five years ago, but men seem to be just as emotional as women - if not more... I mean, fantasy is a universal necessity for all human brains, and novels about courtly love are probably the most explicit example of something medieval people expressed that need with. Men had to be enjoying the the literature too.
ReplyDeleteIt does seem that anything with romance involved is thought of as feminine, which is odd because both men and women participate in it in real life. I can imagine that the idea of feminism "back then" was different, and I wonder if we will find it in the literature. Perhaps a character you could call feminist is The Wife of Bath from The Canterbury Tales. I think you will enjoy her.
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