Thursday, February 9, 2017

Fighting over the Girls

There is so much going on in Erec and Enide's story, and we're only halfway done! I'm beginning to get whiplash.

Almost immediately (page 2) we're thrown into King Arthur's desire to hold a hunt for a white stag. Cool, dude, but apparently this is going to cause problems. You have hundreds of women in your court, and you're going to use this hunt as a competition to kiss the most beautiful of them. I guess if you're the king you can do that kind of thing. But when one of your buddies tells you it's not a good idea because fights will break out, you just say, "yeah but we're gonna do it anyway!" Let all the men fight each other over who has the most beautiful woman by his side. Great idea, your majesty.

Then we move into this strange scene with Erec, Guinevere, her maid, and the group that we're soon going to view as our enemies. It's a commonality it literature: the hero's enemy is ours, and this knight (Yder) pissed Erec off. We're off to get revenge! Yder and his dwarf are in our targets, and we hope that Erec can 1) find them, and 2) retrieve his stolen dignity. But we'll have to hit the pause button for a moment because we have to meet the most beautiful woman in the world.


Erec finds a place to stay, and good for him because it's an event that will change the rest of his life. We meet the man who hosts our hero, a father who is happy to share his home with this random (albeit handsome, as we're told) man who just rode up on his horse. Erec has no problem with handing over his horse and allowing himself to be vulnerable in this guy's house. This seems to be a theme in the medieval time period; people, specifically traveling knights, are incredibly trusting of others and their families. I keep wondering if that confidence is universal during this time period or if it's only because they have a position in Arthur's court.

On to this maiden we just met. She's put away our hero's horse and returned to her father and Erec. 
Then her father orders her to have sex with Erec.
That was my interpretation of "my dear daughter, take this lord by the hand and show him the highest honor" (7). Why is this a thing? Is this a custom that allows knights to trust strangers, engaging in 'the highest honor,' or does the ordinary person hand over anything and everything they can to impress the knights? It's all about the Magic Hoo-Hah*, I guess.

Back to Erec's quest for revenge. As we know he participates in the sparrowhawk fight. Side note: why do these men insist on fighting each other to prove who has the most beautiful woman in their possession? 


We finally meet Yder, who seems to be angry and maybe a bit arrogant before their challenge unfolds. But we also know that he's a knight, so on some level, I want to believe he's a good guy. Okay, decent, good might be stretching it. Good guys don't let dwarfs whip everyone just for the hell of it. Erec seems to be on the same wavelength because he's gonna win this fight over the sparrowhawk. But is he, though? I think at this point he's already fallen in love with the nameless (who woman we know to be Edine now). So yeah sure, I'll pretend to believe he's fighting for his revenge against the dwarf's whipping incident. The passion he puts into this battle says he has another reason for being out there. He wants to win that sparrowhawk for his lady.

Here's my biggest problem with the first half of "Erec and Edine": Yder went to the castle to surrender to Queen Guinevere. I get that he's a knight and he has to live by the rule and expectations, and by doing so, he proves himself to be honorable. But this is the question that is leaving me confused: why? What would have happened if he caught the Royals on a day when they weren't feeling so generous? He wouldn't have received Guinevere's acceptance of his presence and Arthur's decision to add him to the court. He could have easily just said


and taken his dwarf (who has proved himself to be wickedly defensive) and the lady he had to some other distant land. They could have started a new life and been the main characters of their own fictional romance story. Bonus: they would avoid the possibility of Guinevere's imprisonment.

*Thank you for the new term, Amy.

5 comments:

  1. Ashley!
    The father telling Enide to have sexy-times with Erec was such a WTF moment for me! It was my understanding that virtue is/was something that was sacred, perhaps only for marriage. And then it's cool to have an extramarital affair if it's true love *flutters eyelashes* I was caught off guard because I totally read it the same way you did. Like, Papa Enide needs to calm down with pimping his daughter out. I totally get that Erec is a hot manly studly male specimen but he's being a little too extra. The Magic Hoo-Hah is a very powerful thing; not only when it comes to having power over the male species but also as currency/gifts. Oh, you're a studly sexy knight? Here have some free, wonderful Magic Hoo-Hah!

    I think the men fight each other to prove that they have the most beautiful lady friend is just another way of... umm... "measuring up". Which dude has the strongest arm, the mightiest sword, the prettiest most beautiful girly-friend? IMO, it's just a way of parading their manliness and marking/defending their territory. But I'm not a medievalist, so who the hell knows?

    Great post, girl!

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  2. Okay, good, so I wasn't the only one weirded out by Enide's father "pimping" her out, as Ashley said! I instantly envisioned her father standing between them (like the director of a bad pornography or something) and literally instructing them to fornicate. As weird as that sounds in modern day, I understand how normal this might have been for real people living in Enide's time; of course, the father has always been the parental figure with the duty of approving his daughter's husband. The elephant in the room is the fact that his daughter and that man will have sex, so TECHNICALLY, this all makes sense. It's just strange to literally instruct it. I don't think it's strange that he referenced virginity or sex as "the highest honor." Yeah, I like that. Us ladies withhold the highest honor a man can achieve between our legs, and it's our decision whether we share it or not. Taking a man's virginity must mean nothing, right? It's all about the hoo-hah.

    Amanda

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  3. So the knights parading around fighting reminds me of the boys in my middle school playing kick ball in front of the girls. I do believe it is the nature of young males to want to impress women with their physical endurance. Which yes, tends to come across as douchey. Maybe that's why you can't suspend your disbelief (this is a term in films which basically means a good story makes you believe it no matter what): that it seems a douchey thing to do but the book doesn't address it as such. I think we are going to have to prepare ourselves for more virile male douchey-ness though.

    As for Enide and her dad. I agree that with cringey. I do understand why giving your virginity to someone would be "the highest honor" though. Let's be real, isn't that what they're after? ;) (Eww.)

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  4. I guess the reason why Yder actually went to the queen on his word was because being honorable was important for knights. If he had a higher status and then did something to jeopardize it, my guess is that word would get around and it would catch up with him no matter what. I do agree that Erec fights for the sparrow hawk not just because of his anger towards what happened to him but he actually wants to win Enide, and it's a good thing he does!

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  5. Amanda: dying from that mental image of the father being like the director of a bad porno.

    Also, isn't every thing in romance all about the magic hoo-hah? Let's be honest.

    Also also, this is King Arthur. The man is addicted to entertainment and all things odd. It's borderline obsession by this point. There was probably nothing of interest going on and he needed entertainment. So while Gawain was saying, "Bruh, don't do this. This is such a bad fucking idea," he honestly should have known better by this point. Of course Arthur's going to do it. If it's for entertainment purposes, I feel like the man will do just about anything (which makes me think that my opinion of Arthur, just like Guinevere and Lancelot, is steadily going downhill...oh no).

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