Emaré must be my favorite tale by far. In the face of death, Emaré/ Egaré somehow kills everyone with kindness and grace. I wish I wasn't as petty as I am, because she is an absolute rock-star. A humble upbringing by Dame Abró was clearly much better than her heathen father. I find it interesting how no one questions anyone. There is no "dude wtf" or "why did you replace me with the King of Sicily?" (ALSO lol at his temporary blindness and instantly blaming it on fairies)
I'm very proud of her to have the strength to tell her father she will not marry him in the name of the Lord. Still shocked that his first instinct was to cast his own daughter who he's seen for the first time in YEARS to sea with no resources. But at the same time, I feel like a lot of people make rash decisions as such.
Emaré, now Egaré once she reaches Wales seems to experience one of the greatest fortunes the world could bestow upon her. Much like our class discussion about the author giving the reader positive/life changing events, but taking away with tragedy (although this is of a higher scale than Sir Orfeo's) I find that it makes me want to keep reading. Having a healthy boy and living to take care of him, then being cast off to sea AGAIN because of her husband's mom (talk about bad in-laws).
The way she goes about telling, or having Segramore tell them, both her father and husband who they are is extraordinarily eloquent. She carries no hate in her which I know I would be FIRED UP if anything happened to me even remotely as terrible as that. I'd say the lesson is to prove by doing and always strive to be the better person (and to raise even better kids).
This is one of my favorite tales too! Also, this chick reminds me of Le Fresne, in that she remains humble and able to forgive the people who have done her wrong. I appreciate that quality about her, but like you, I would not be tolerating that crap! But we have to take these stories for what they are and think with our "fairy brains"! Even though incest is not best, at least her father had some remorse when he sent his only daughter off to sea... right? No? Yeah, maybe not.
ReplyDeleteAhh... Welcome to the Petty Bettie Club, girl! I totally agree. Emare is super amazing with her beauty, kindness, ability to forgive the myriad of shit she has to go through throughout her story. It truly is unbelievable. I think Annie hit the nail right on the head. There are some pretty good similarities to Le Fresne. Not only personality-wise but plot-wise as well. Le Fresne and Emare are both sent away and have another person take care of them until they reach adulthood. They are both sent away from their parental figures (for whatever reason), and when they are in love, people try to send them off and ruin things. I'm not mad about the overlap, though, since Le Fresne and Emare have enough differences to make the story interesting.
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ReplyDeleteEmare's fate is a nightmare, this is true, but it makes her all the more "saintly"
ReplyDeleteBut ah,yeah why doesn't anyone question anything at all, ever? Wtf! Like on so many things!
But first, wait -- from a man's pov, these "minor" players -- the two men who rescue her from the boat? They find a friggin goddess!! Yo, after like one day i would be hopelessly gone for her, so I'd never offer her to my king thats fo sho!
Back to not question anything one hears. Yeah and fighting a war for a couple of years while your bride is having your baby? When you're the ruler? Okay, I’ll just say this up front: If I were king, there'd be some changes made! And how about the messenger and mean mother from hell and the notes. How could they not have ANY investigation? Plus, why would you put a goddess/queen "adrift" without at least going to the battle field to make sure it was the king's wishes?
Anyway, i also have to agree that Emare disposition (doll that she is) is a beautiful example of spirituality-- an ideal -- like what's her name? ... oh yeah, "Le Fresne". Saintly? Um, yeah!